Family Dinner – Bon Appétit

DinnerIsServedHere lately I’ve developed this odd craving for history. So much so that I’ve returned to yet another serving of “Nightmares” an old paperback of some pretty doggone dark short stories. Spine torn, ripped, cracked cover, curled pages, its been on my nightstand for years. After reading the stories for the umpteenth time, Daughter of the Golden West by author Dennis Etchison, stuck in my head and I wondered if there was maybe some truth to this story so I googled some of the names and places mentioned.

Let me just say truth is stranger or in this bit of California lore, more gruesome than fiction. The story centers on three high school boys, although one is already dead, his mutilated body having already been found by a roadside way on the outskirts of town. The remaining two, Don and David, decides to go looking for the last person their friend was with, a girl that had transferred to their school toward the end of the school year.

First, they had to go to the registrar’s office to get her current address, because strangely enough, she got out of dodge once school was out. David lies that he’d loaned her a book and needed it back. That was enough to get them on the right track. She lived with her sister some hour and a half drive away in a town called Sunnydale.

Cathy was her name and she’d been helping Bob with his term paper. Don and David had obtained the paper from the history teacher. Don starts reading the draft, which was far as Bob had gotten. “He was really into something strange,” he notes as they head out of town. The something strange or grim, depending on how you look at it, had to do with The Donner Party or Donner-Reed Party.

Back in the day, apparently folks from the East took wagon trains to California to settle. At the time, most followed the already established Oregon Trail, a route that usually took around four to six months. April 1846, these families and their employees left Springfield, Illinois with no clue they were headed toward what would become one of the grimmest tragedies in the history of westbound migration.

Short story shorter, the Donner-Reed party left the Oregon Trail and took a lesser known route called Hastings Cutoff. This would turn out to be a big huge gigantic mistake. In August they crossed the Wasatch Mountains and Great Salt Lake Desert. By November they were hopelessly snowbound in the pass above what was then Truckee Lake, now Donner Lake. Eighty-seven souls trapped high up in the Sierra Nevada.

Mid-December, fifteen of them, dubbed the “forlorn hope group”, went in search of help. Of the fifteen, seven survived by eating the ox hide in their snowshoes and wait for it, their fallen comrades.

Meanwhile, those left behind were dying of exposure, mal-nourishment, starvation and other ailments. It would be months before help arrived. One family having eaten everything, even the ox hide rug and covering on the roof, resorted to eating the family dog.

Side Note: It’s been said the lake were not frozen over when the parties first arrived. Supposedly, they were too ill-equipped to catch the fish. As such they lost a potential source of food that could’ve been life-sustaining, or at the very least could’ve saved them having to resort to eating one another.

By all accounts, those people turned to cannibalism. Daughter of the Golden West was implying of course this Cathy was a descendant of The Donner-Reed Party. Don and David arrived just in time for dinner and guess what or who was on the menu? Bon appetite.

Would love if this could be made into a great movie or a series like The Walking Dead, Game of Thrones, Penny Dreadful or something.

Just thought of something. Imagine being on a show like Who Do You Think You Are or doing a family tree search and find out you’re a descendant of cannibals…


Revival Beauty Is A Scam – Run, Don’t Walk, Away From Those Glitzy Free Trial Offers


Sorry I haven’t posted in such a long while, but I just had to sound the alarm on this latest scam I ran across on the internet. It’s called Revival Beauty, a very vile and ugly cosmetics scam. They were offering what I thought to be free trial offers for their beauty cream and eye serum. First of all the “free trials” are not free. Don’t let the bright, slick looking images fool you. They are only shiny objects to sucker you into ordering the trials.


Say “bye Felicia” to Revival Beauty. Unless you like being scammed.


Google Revival Beauty and you will run into sites where you can rush order the two products. Some of the sites contain before and after pictures of well-known movie actresses, as well as unknown women supposedly transformed by products so amazing you won’t need Botox. A screenshot of a video of Dr. Oz hawking these products as an affordable fountain of youth appears in several websites. Unfortunately, I didn’t notice the black dot covering the good doctor’s face.

Drum roll please…Here is my experience with this internet merchant, and I use that term loosely, as I’ve not been able to locate Revival Beauty’s headquarters. I ordered the $4.95 trials on a Sunday. The following Monday evening, looking at the confirmation emails, I just got a bad feeling about ordering this stuff online. Call it a hunch, woman’s intuition or whatever, it saved me. Right then and there I googled “complaints about Revival Beauty” and first thing I see is scam. Fortunately, the email contained a customer service number. I couldn’t dial it fast enough.

I got a voice message asking for the number I’d included on the order. I gave the number and was informed the order had yet to ship. Relieved, I followed the prompts to cancel. That’s when I encountered the customer service rep from hell. She had real bad English and kept insisting the order had already shipped. I would still have to pay S&H cause the items were on the way.

There was no tracking number, therefore the item hadn’t shipped I said repeatedly. After going around and around for nearly an hour, it became painfully obvious I wasn’t dealing with a fair merchant, but rather a cyberspace scammer with no intention of doing a fair trade, even after being caught red-handed.

I called my credit card company and the S&H charge of $4.95 was already “pending” for each of the items. The customer service rep said I couldn’t dispute until actual arrival of these items, unless the merchant agreed to cancel transactions. To her credit, the credit card rep set up a three-way call with the Revival rep, who continued to tell us the items had already shipped and tried to get me to buy the products at a reduced rate.

After nearly two hours on the phone with credit card rep doing most of the negotiating, because quite frankly I was too pissed for words, Revival rep finally sent confirmation cancellation emails. Mind you I was still being billed for the 2 “pending” transactions, supposedly because the items, say it with me, “Had already shipped.” The cancellation notices said, please send product back postage paid to:

Fulfillment Center

c/o Revival Beauty Returns

PO Box 13491

St. Petersburg FL 33733-3491

Bottom line. This Revival Beauty scam could care less if you test these products. What they’re counting on is you not noticing, until it’s too late of course, that they’ve robbed you blind. The clock starts ticking from the moment you hit send for those trials and on day 15, you will need to be revived when you find yourself out of nearly $200.

If you’re still not paying attention, you will be by the time “auto shipping” you weren’t aware of kicks in. One complainant said, “If you have been scammed by these people, please go to the better business bureau and attorney general web sites and put in a complaint like i did   may be they can do something   I tried to get refund and am still fighting  they charged me close to  $600   they refused to refund…”

Yet another said, “The trial offer is good for 14 days from the date you place the order.  On the 15th day you will be charged $99.98 for the facial cream and $89.99 for the eye cream. And at this point you cannot return it. I did not receive my product until about the 10th or 11th day.  Not enough time to…”

As for me, I received both the anti-wrinkle cream and eye serum inside the same small cardboard box with nothing except a shipping slip. There was no instructions on how to use the items, not that I intended to, and you needed a magnifying glass to read the print on that small jar of very expensive cream. What a high price to pay for people like me naively believing we were being given an opportunity to “test” products. All lies of course.

While I’m out just the shipping cost for the 2 items, I’m still pissed on behalf of those left in a serious financial bind by these thieves. It’s been said the pen is mightier than the sword. Let’s hope so, for the only way to defeat scammers is to take away their ability to do business. To begin we need to get the word out.

Rip Off Report, highya,, BBB, your state’s attorney general office, consumer affairs, Youtube, Twitter, Facebook, etc, are ways to fight back against these scammers. Make no mistake, Revival Beauty is a scam and any testimonial on their behalf should be viewed as highly suspect. If they were legit, those glitzy ads would have the billing information in plain sight. Instead, Revival Beauty perpetrates “gotcha” robbery upon unsuspecting consumers. Run, don’t walk, away from this scam.

Scammers Try to Get You Coming and Going

You arrive at your hotel and check in at the front desk. Typically when checking in, you give the front desk your credit card (for any charges to your room). You go to your room and settle in. All is good. The hotel receives a call and the caller asks for (as an example) room 620 – which happens to be your room. The phone rings in your room. You answer and the person on the other end says the following: ‘This is the front desk. When checking in, we came across a problem with your charge card information. Please re-read me your credit card number and verify the last 3 digits numbers at the reverse side of your charge card.’ Not thinking anything wrong, since the call seems to come from the front desk you oblige. But actually, it is a scam by someone calling from outside the hotel. They have asked for a random room number, then ask you for your credit card and address information. They sound so professional, that you think you are talking to the front desk.
If you ever encounter this scenario on your travels, tell the caller that you will be down to the front desk to clear up any problems. Then,  go to the front desk or call directly and ask if there was a problem. If there was none, inform the manager of the hotel that someone tried to scam you of your credit card information, acting like a front desk employee.
This was sent to me by someone who was  duped……..and is still cleaning up the mess.
Please, consider spreading the word by forwarding this e-mail. Who knows, you might just help someone avoid a nasty experience. ANYONE traveling should be aware of this one!
Also beware of the lottery and sweepstakes scams. If a stranger should contact you via email, Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr, etc., stating you’ve won the lottery or some sweepstakes, please don’t send them any money to complete the transaction. Matter of fact if you don’t recognize an email sender don’t open it. If you receive such a text on your phone, erase or delete it. Don’t correspond with the scammers on social media. REMEMBER, if it sounds too good to be true, it probably is.
Our neighbors are ending up on the 6’oclock news complaining about scammers ripping them off. Knowledge is power. Lets help our neighbors, family, friends, co-workers, etc.,  by getting the word out. No matter how professional or smooth they sound, how attractive they are, don’t be fooled by these unscrupulous shysters.

Scammers Want To Put A Zero On It

A word of warning: Beyonce says, “Caused if you liked it then you should’ve put a ring on it.”  When it comes to your prepaid debit card or Paypal account, maybe someone adding a zero to your existing funds isn’t such a great idea. Please don’t let scammers put a ZERO on it.

Times are hard. But please don’t fall prey to this latest scam. Heard about it on the local news. This poor woman is in shadow. She doesn’t want to show her face because, well, quite simply, she has aided and abetted in her own robbing. A total stranger contacted her, said if she had one of those prepaid credit cards, she could crack some code, add a ‘0’ and make her life much richer.

These thieves are all over the place: Facebook, Instagram, Craigslist, Twitter, etc. Any place they can set up a bogus profile and lure you in with the promise of a quick buck. If you have $200 on your prepaid debit card, wherever you’ve purchased it, this scammer promises to add a ‘0’. So, she/he will turn your $200, to $2000, your $500, to $5000. You get the picture.

The shadow lady on the local news handed over her pin number and the rest as they say is history. Instead of that promised ‘0’ being added to her account, she ended up with ‘0’ and a horrible lesson learned, hopefully. If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is. Don’t be a sucker.

This person disappeared like the thief in the night he/she was. Once they’ve gotten your money, it’s all but impossible to get it back. Remember, the prepaid credit card is not a credit card in the sense that you’re dealing with a legitimate bank, say Wells Fargo, Bank of America, Chase, etc. THIS IS YOUR MONEY. Think of the prepaid card like your own personal piggy bank.

Please don’t let greed and/or some desperate situation turn you into a silhouette on the local news, putting the story out there about how you assisted in your own robbing. Instead of the scammer adding a ‘0’ to her balance, Ms. Silhouette was left with a ZERO balance on her card.

According to the BBB, Green Dot Moneypak is currently the most used preload debit card. That’s why it’s these particular scammers card of choice. Keeping their finger on the pulse of parting folks from their cash is what they do. Check out this very in depth link to how this scam works.

Should you be contacted via social media, call or text, on the street, a knock at the door, by someone insisting he/she can just manipulate your card, tell them, “thanks but no thanks.” Let others know about this scam, especially the elderly, a population often targeted by scammers. One part common sense, one part knowledge can be a powerful potion to ward off heartless scammers.

FYI: Some claim this scam actually delivered as promised. If it did, it was probably a few bucks, just my opinion. Just enough to turn some person into the scammer(s)’s own personal mule, without the person even knowing. I mean seeing someone’s twenty buck account increased to $200 would make most of us want a piece of that action, right. Sometime it’s the price a scammer pays to do business. Again, don’t be fooled.

Diabetics Meet Spaghetti Squash

Thanks to a diabetes class which included actual hands-on cooking, I was introduced to this fabulous recipe. Trust me, a fork full of this spaghetti squash and zucchini and you won’t even notice you’re not eating carb-heavy pasta. I’m not much of a cook, so I grabbed a jar of Prego heart healthy spaghetti sauce. They used something similar in the class so I don’t feel bad.  If you want to make your own sauce, have at it. The class also used walnuts which gave it a nice crunchiness.

If you don’t focus too hard, I think it makes a great spaghetti substitute.  Pasta loving diabetics meet the spaghetti squash. Hope it’s a match made in heaven. Good eating!

Top Ten Scams to Watch Out for

There is nothing I hate worst than those who devote their lives to scamming people out of their hard earned money. How scam artists are able to sleep soundly still boggles my mind. I just have to accept some people have no conscious when it comes to obtaining money by hook or crook. All we can do is arm ourselves with as much knowledge as possible. So when my local television news station, WXII 12,  featured these scams I felt the least I could do was post them. If it keeps even one person from being scammed, I feel this post won’t have been in vain. The Better Business Bureau named these the top scams to watch out for. Arm yourself with knowledge and common sense (remember if it sounds too good to be true it probably is), and try not to get scammed in 2013:

Top overpayment/fake check scam: car advertisements

The online ad would say “Get Paid Just for Driving Around” – a prominent company is offering $400+ per week if you’ll drive around with their logo all over your car. They send a check to you, which you are supposed to deposit in your account and then wire part of the payment to the graphic designer who will customize the ad for your vehicle. Whoops! A week later, the check bounces, the graphic designer is nowhere to be found, and you are out the money you wired. The Internet Complaint Center ( says they saw this one a lot in 2012.

Top sales/rental scam: real stars, fake goods

Sports memorabilia and phony tickets always make the list of top counterfeit goods. From the Super Bowl to the World Series, counterfeiters manage to have their hands in your pocket all year long. With the London Olympics added to the mix, it appears that 2012 was a good year for sports fakes. Some scammers were selling cheap knock-offs in front of stadiums. Remember, if a deal sounds too good to be true, it probably is.

Top emergency scam: grandparents scam

The “Grandparents Scam” has been around a while, but it’s still so prevalent: grandchild/niece/nephew/friend is traveling abroad and calls/texts/emails to say he or she has been mugged/arrested/hurt and needs money right away (“…and please don’t tell mom and dad!”). Plus the FBI says that, thanks to social media, it’s getting easier and easier for scammers to tell a more plausible story because they can use real facts from the supposed victim’s life (“Remember that great camera I got for Christmas?” “I’m in France to visit my old college roommate.”). Easy rule of thumb – before you wire money in an emergency, check with the supposed victim or their family members to make sure they really are traveling. Odds are they are safe at home.

Top home improvement scam: Sandy “Storm Chasers”

This year there was an unusual amount of “storm chaser” activity following Super Storm Sandy. Tree removal, roofing, general home repairs – some were legitimate contractors who came from other areas for the volume of work available; others were unlicensed, uninsured and ill-prepared for the work; while some were even out-and-out scam artists who took the money and never did the work. In an emergency, it’s tempting to skip reference checking, but that’s never a good idea.

Top advance fee/prepayment scam: nonexistent loans

Loan scams continued to fester in 2012. It seems for every legitimate lender out there, there is a scammer waiting to prey on people in desperate situations. Most of the scams advertise online and promise things like no credit check or easy repayment terms. Then the hook: you have to make the first payment upfront, you have to buy an “insurance policy,” or there is some other kind of fee that you have to pay first to “secure” the loan. This year there was an aggressive twist on loan scams: consumers who were threatened with lawsuits and law enforcement action if they didn’t “pay back” loans they said they had never even taken out in the first place. Some got calls at their workplace, even to relatives. The embarrassment of being thought of as a delinquent caused some victims to pay even when they knew they didn’t owe the money.

Top employment scam: mystery shopping

If you love to shop, working as a secret shopper may sound like an ideal way to supplement your income. But scammers have figured that out, too, and many job offers are nothing more than a variation on the overpayment/fake check scam. Sometimes they even tell you that evaluating the wire service company is part of the job, which is why you need to send back part of the money. The Mystery Shopping Providers Association says it’s not the practice of their members to pre-pay shoppers.

Top sweepstakes/lottery scam: Jamaican phone lottery

This is an old one that flared up again this year. In this one, the calls come from Jamaica (area code 876) but the person claims to represent the Better Business Bureau (or FBI, or another trusted group). Great news: you’ve won a terrific prize (typical haul: $2 million and Mercedes Benz) but you have to pay a fee in order to collect your winnings. There are lots of variations on this; sometimes it’s a government grant. Best just to hang up and then file a phone fraud report with the appropriate government agency.

Top phishing scam: President Obama will pay your utility bills

Of all the politically-related scams, this one seemed to be the most prevalent. At the peak of summer with utility costs soaring, consumers got emails, letters and even door-to-door solicitations about a “new government program” to pay your utility bills. Victims “registered” with an official-looking website and provided everything scammers needed for identity theft purposes, including bank account information.

Top identity theft scam: fake Facebook tweets

Two top social media sites were exploited in one of this year’s top scams. You get a Direct Message from a friend on Twitter with something about a video of you on Facebook (“ROFL they was taping you” or “What RU doing in this FB vid?” are typical tweets). In a panic, you click on the link to see what the embarrassing video could possibly be, and you get an error message that says you need to update Flash or other video player. But the file isn’t a new version of Flash; it’s a virus or malware that can steal confidential information from your computer or smart phone. Twitter recommends reporting such spam, resetting your password and revoking connections to third-party applications.

Scam of the year: Newtown charity scams

Within hours of the horrific shooting at Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown, Connecticut, social media pages dedicated to the child victims began cropping up and some of them were scams asking for money. The FBI arrested one woman for posing as the aunt of one of the children killed, and state and federal agencies are investigating other possible fraudulent and misleading solicitations.

My Cat’s A Killing Machine and I like It


Can’t wait to get outside.

I was half-way watching the national news the other day when the anchorman mentioned cats and really got my attention. A study conducted by scientists from the Smithsonian Conservation Biology Institute and the Fish and Wildlife Service estimated that domestic cats in the United States, our indoor/outdoor precious pets and outdoor strays and ferals, kill around 2.4 billion birds and 12.3 billion mammals a year, making cats one of the single greatest human-linked threats to wildlife in the nation.

This was very sobering because even though Tigger tried to bring a bird’s carcass in the house once, I’d assumed it was already dead. My precious Tigger would never kill a bird in cold blood he had no intention of eating. In hindsight Tigger rather blatantly flaunted several kills, leaving uneaten corpses right in front of the door. Of course that study snatched me right out of the state of denial I’d been living and drove home the harsh reality that those many times Tigger bit and scratched me, he could’ve inflicted much more damage.

That the spoiled, cantankerous Tigger is a killing machine has added a whole new dimension to our relationship. Maybe he sensed the gig was up. That there was no longer a need to sheath his instinct because he and I had a near physical fight a couple of days later. So I can personally attest to at least one cat’s ferociousness.

He was peeved because I refused to give him more of his favorite snack. Lower sodium honey roasted turkey. I’d quit giving it to him at one point, but started back after Zoey died, figuring why the hell not. Now he’s like a crack head always wanting to hit the pipe and I’m the dealer. I attempted to bribe him with firm strokes down his back and a good scratch beneath his chin.

He seemed to be chilling which made me relax because that baritone meow of his puts me in suspended animation to the point all I can think is how do I get him to stop. I took my eyes off of him for just a second to check the time and he hauled off and bit me on the hand. I rapped him on the forehead. His ears went back, his eyes got manic, the fangs came out and he struck at me with a paw. I jumped up and damned if he didn’t look ready to pounce. Picture a cat pinned to my chest and me trying to pry him off. My heart was pounding like a runaway stallion and adrenalin was prompting my feet to lash out. Good thing we came to our senses and backed down.

Now some of you may find this strange. But knowing my cat could be a vicious killer actually makes me feel better. Knowing that cats with no home wandering the wild won’t starve because they are natural born hunters definitely takes a load off. Maybe my love for cats is blinding. I see the birds and mammals as collateral damage. It’s survival of the fittest and if my Tigger ended up outside having to fend for himself, I sure as hell want him to be the fittest.

Thanks to that report, the scratches on my wrists and arms and the corpses I’ve seen with my own eyes, I now know that Tigger can take care of himself if he had to. I know the last thing environmentalists want to see are more cats roaming all over the place, especially feral ones. In a perfect world all cats would have homes and be kept perpetually indoors. But we all know this world is far from perfect.

Speaking of which, Tigger was outside the other night when a dog barking its head off made me open the door. There he was tail all bushed out. I didn’t see a dog but had to keep hissing at him to get him to stand down and come in. It took a while for his tail to morph back to normal size. Sensing I was proud of him he strutted around showing off.

Domesticating cats thank goodness hasn’t neutralized their natural instinct. Hunting is what cats do and I for one like knowing my cat wouldn’t starve if God forbid, he ended up in the wild.